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It wasn't that
long ago that hooking up a TV was no more complex than adjusting
the rabbit ear antenna on top of the set. Now, satellites, DVDs,
cable and game platforms have turned the TV into an entertainment
and information center. This is a blessing and a curse: broadening
the content coming into the house means that there is lots of content
you don't want your kids exposed to. Yet even as the switch between
channels children can see and hear things that are completely inappropriate.
What can you do?
Be
an active parent. More important than any gadget, rating system
or new technology, is the role you play as an active participant
in your child's television experience.
Try
to limit your child's viewing time to no more than two hours a day,
and make sure that in addition to tv they are engaged in active
play that uses their whole body.
Discuss
and plan tv viewing with children in advance -- which will help
kids make decisions, see consequences, and learn to make priorities.
Try making a chart that plans the week in advance, listing the shows
they want to see in 30 minute segments. This is a practical way
for kids to get experience with fractions as they map out their
week's viewing in half hour blocks. This advance planning gets them
thinking critically and turns them into creators, instead of just
passive viewers. More important, it gives you a chance to see what
their watching and discuss with them the themes and values of the
programming. It also gives you an opportunity to steer them to better
choices.
Using
Technology to Take Control. There
are two ways to control what your children watch on TV when you're
not physically there turning the channels or TV on or off: 1) Block
access to objectionable content and 2) Provide them with preselected
content you approve.
Blocking
Access. With hundreds of channels coming into the house the
first thing you want to do is learn how to block content and turn
off channels that are inappropriate. If your tv set was manufactured
since 2000 and is 13" or greater it is equipped with a Vchip
that makes this easy. From the set's menu access the parental control
screen. There you can block content based on ratings based on age
or content such as language or nudity. Many new sets also allow
you to block channels completely. Once you set the level, the tv
will require a password to view higher rated programs. Keep in mind
that even if your set has a Vchip, it won't block content until
you take control and set it!
What
if you don't have a new set? Many cable companies and most satellite
tv providers have the same sort of controls built into their set
top boxes. Call your provider and ask them for instructions on how
to get the new boxes installed in your home.
An
alternate approach is to use a product called the Weemote
($29.95 - www.weemote.com). This is a remote control that works
with many televisions and VCRs that you program for your child.
Only the channels you pre-approve can be accessed by the child.
However, this only works as a safeguard until your child is old
enough to reach the tv's controls. At that point they can get around
the Weemote by entering the channels directly.
Provide
your children with prerecorded content that you've selected. Some
cool devices make this easier:
The
MovieTime™ VCR ($99 www.sony.com) looks like a regular VCR
but it just does playback, and parents can also lock a tape in it
so kids can't put in the wrong tape by accident. Another nice feature
for toddlers and curious preschoolers is that it's specially designed
so that kids can't shove fingers and food into the video slot when
it is locked!
A
DVD/CD changer can also help you select what movies are available
to your kids and, at the same time protect your investment in disks
from scratches that are a part of the intensified wear and tear
inflicted by kids. The Sony DVD changer ($699 www.sony.com) demonstrated
on tv can hold up to 300 audio CDs and video DVDs. The price seems
high until you consider that the value of 300 disk might be ten
times greater than the cost of the unit. Think of it as insurance
from mishandling and it looks like a good investment.
Digital
Recorders: Tivo (www.tivo.com) and Ultimate TV
(www.ultimatetv.com) Recording content from tv is another great
source of children's programming. New Digital Recorders make recording
a snap: With the Tivo or Ultimate TV units that hook up to a Direct
TV satellite antenna, two weeks of television listings are beamed
down by satellite. To pick a show you just point to it in the listings.
You can search by title or actor. You can even choose a Season's
Pass and it will record up to thirty hours worth of the program
of your choice! The Tivo unit can only record and show a single
show at a time, though they have plans to enable the unit to record
and display different programs at the same time in the near future.
The
new Ultimate TV/Direct TV unit (a collaboration between Microsoft
and Direct TV) can record one show while you watch another. It also
comes with WebTV access built right in.
These
units lets you preview what your kids are watching and help them
be selective and understand the values that the shows are teaching.
These satellite TV/recording systems are great for parents of young
kids because you can get hundreds of channels and you can even "pause"
a live show, like a football game or a sitcom to take care of the
kids, and then come back and pick up where you left off. In James'
home his kids choose which shows they want to watch in advance,
record them on the Tivo, and then - when homework is done - they
can watch at their leisure.
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